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		<title>Brief Notes</title>
		<link>http://kitoconnell.com/2010/03/04/brief-notes/</link>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 05 Mar 2010 00:43:59 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Kit</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Houston Art Nerds]]></category>
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		<description><![CDATA[I&#8217;m feeling a lot of push from my muse to write, which is good overall (except when I get cranky with a friend or loved one who &#8216;interrupts&#8217; her). I&#8217;ve got a couple reviews in the works, various ideas kicking around in my head, a coauthor eager to continue work on Honeycutt Tales and the germ [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I&#8217;m feeling a lot of push from my muse to write, which is good overall (except when I get cranky with a friend or loved one who &#8216;interrupts&#8217; her). I&#8217;ve got a couple reviews in the works, various ideas kicking around in my head, a coauthor eager to continue work on <em>Honeycutt Tales </em>and the germ of a brand new collaborative project which I won&#8217;t be able to tell you about for a long time. Believe me though, it&#8217;s a thrilling one and the possibilities have lit a fire under my creative spirit.</p>
<p>I&#8217;ve got an upper respiratory infection and probably have had one for a while. I only just yesterday got on Houston&#8217;s <a href="http://www.hchdonline.com/patient/onecard/goldcard.htm" target="_blank">gold card</a>, so today I was able to see a doctor and get some much needed prescriptions. Not only that but I am back in treatment for fibromyalgia and finally have a prescription for muscle relaxers again. If you live in Houston and don&#8217;t have insurance, you should really have a gold card (even if you make more money than I do).</p>
<p>The new edition of <a href="http://www.mchristian.com/" target="_blank">M. Christian</a>&#8217;s The Bachelor Machine should go on sale soon from <a href="http://www.circlet.com/" target="_blank">Circlet Press</a>, featuring a new introduction by yours truly. In addition to excitement over seeing my words in print alongside this favorite author of mine, I&#8217;m also especially pleased that the new edition features a dialogue between Chris and <a href="http://www.ceciliatan.com/" target="_blank">Cecilia Tan</a>. It was a freebie given to reviewers of the old edition and I <a href="http://www.sfsite.com/04a/bm173.htm" target="_blank">once lamented</a> that most readers would be unable to enjoy it; now it&#8217;s in its own appendix. I will be sure to post here when the book is available.</p>
<p>The second <a href="http://www.facebook.com/group.php?gid=274006998529" target="_blank">Houston Art Nerds</a> salon is tomorrow. Our theme this time is &#8216;Storytelling,&#8217; but as always we welcome artists in all media. If you&#8217;d like more information, visit <a href="http://www.facebook.com/group.php?gid=274006998529" target="_blank">the Facebook group</a> or contact me directly.</p>
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		<title>Privacy and Sousveillance</title>
		<link>http://kitoconnell.com/2010/02/26/privacy-and-sousveillance/</link>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 26 Feb 2010 19:46:31 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Kit</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Life]]></category>

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		<description><![CDATA[I&#8217;ve recently been engaging in conversation on ReadWriteWeb&#8217;s Google Buzz feed. Not only have there been lively discussions there,  but it&#8217;s gotten me thinking about privacy, social networking and related topics. As Google Buzz has undergone an extremely shaky launch it&#8217;s been fascinating to watch the various reactions people have. My mother, a tech savvy [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I&#8217;ve recently been engaging in conversation on <a href="http://readwriteweb.com/" target="_blank">ReadWriteWeb</a>&#8217;s Google Buzz feed. Not only have there been lively discussions there,  but it&#8217;s gotten me thinking about privacy, social networking and related topics. As <a href="http://buzz.google.com/" target="_blank">Google Buzz</a> has undergone an extremely shaky launch it&#8217;s been fascinating to watch the various reactions people have. My mother, a tech savvy individual and regular participant in some major political blogs reacted with abject horror to the problems with Buzz. While I can see her side (and that of the many other people who were and are in an uproar over Buzz&#8217;s privacy concerns), it seems you react by either seeing Buzz as a useful tool or running away screaming into the night.</p>
<p>I think RWW&#8217;s <a href="http://www.google.com/profiles/teamrww#buzz" target="_blank">buzzfeed </a>is a great example of the potentials for the service as a place for active and intelligent discussions about news and webcontent. I&#8217;ve also been experimenting with using buzz through the google maps application on my Android phone, but this still seems unstable and buggy. Of course, some concerns have been raised about <a href="http://bit.ly/killjoys" target="_self">the effect of location-based services</a>. Yet services like Facebook, Twitter and Google which integrate my location have done wonderful things in my life &#8212; especially in enhancing my ability both to plan organized social gatherings and meet my friends for impromptu ones. I think we end up with issues of surveillance versus <a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Sousveillance" target="_blank">sousveillance</a>: now that the location cat is out of the bag, it will take draconian legislation to put it back in again. What tech activists really need to be doing is to pressure the government and corporations to protect our privacy even while enhancing our the opportunity to give it up voluntarily. I&#8217;m deeply concerned by how quickly ISPs roll over for government surveillance and yet I want to enable the creative, empowering sharing of personal data that these services also allow. I think it will almost certainly take an active, tech-education population to ensure we forge the right balance.</p>
<p>In any case, I&#8217;m thrilled to have been <a href="http://www.readwriteweb.com/archives/location_data_sensitive_like_medical_information_s.php" target="_blank">quoted in ReadWriteWeb&#8217;s discussion of this topic</a>. Hello to any new visitors to kitoconnell.com that stop by because of that link. I update this site a few times a month but the best way to follow me is <a href="http://twitter.com/kitoconnell" target="_self">on twitter</a>.</p>
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		<title>Other Notes / Housing</title>
		<link>http://kitoconnell.com/2010/02/09/other-notes-housing/</link>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 09 Feb 2010 18:23:25 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Kit</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Writing has been slow lately. Some stresses &#8212; see below for one of them &#8212; combined with computer difficulties put a cramp in my output. I&#8217;m working slowly on the former and have mostly solved the latter: a bunch of friends (Maenad, Alan, Chris, and the A&#8217;s, thanks!) donated computer parts to me, so I [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Writing has been slow lately. Some stresses &#8212; see below for one of them &#8212; combined with computer difficulties put a cramp in my output. I&#8217;m working slowly on the former and have mostly solved the latter: a bunch of friends (Maenad, Alan, Chris, and the A&#8217;s, thanks!) donated computer parts to me, so I was able to assemble a frankenPC on which I am typing this entry.</p>
<p>The newest, biggest stress in my life involves my living situation. I&#8217;ve been living with two other roommates for about a year, and was not hoping to move anytime soon. But through circumstances essentially outside his control, the actual lease-holding roommate is going to be forced to make either myself or the third roommate move out. I&#8217;m already basically broke and struggling to get myself on a more stable financial footing, so this has been an unpleasant development to say the least.</p>
<p>Maybe you can help me? What I need are leads on pre-existing places looking for roommates in the Houston (or possibly Austin) area. Even moreso, I&#8217;m looking for potential roommates in the Houston area who might want to go in together on a lease with 2 or 3 other intelligent weirdos. I&#8217;ve done some searching and there are some affordable 3-4 bedroom houses for rent out there and I know I&#8217;ve only just scratched the surface.</p>
<p>My requirements for places I will consider are:</p>
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<li>For Houston locations, somewhere inside the loop.</li>
<li>Accessible to reasonable amounts of public transportation</li>
<li>420- and noisy, kinky sex-friendly</li>
<li>Pet friendly. My cat is antisocial and will probably live mostly or entirely in my bedroom.</li>
<li>Cheap. I&#8217;m paying a maximum of $300/month for both rent and bills and want to keep it under that if possible. But I may be willing to trade added chores for reduced rent.</li>
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<p>If you have any useful information then please leave a comment, email kitoconnell at pobox dot com, or use the mobile number on my homepage (yes it really works).</p>
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		<title>Houston / Liminal spaces</title>
		<link>http://kitoconnell.com/2009/06/16/houston-liminal-spaces/</link>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 17 Jun 2009 03:51:49 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Kit</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Life]]></category>

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		<description><![CDATA[I&#8217;ve been quiet for a while since I moved out of the Dream Cafe and into my own place in Houston. A lot of my life is in transition right now, and sadly I haven&#8217;t done much writing lately. It&#8217;s been an adjustment to living on my own again, but I&#8217;m enjoying it. What I&#8217;m [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I&#8217;ve been quiet for a while since I moved out of the Dream Cafe and into my own place in Houston. A lot of my life is in transition right now, and sadly I haven&#8217;t done much writing lately. It&#8217;s been an adjustment to living on my own again, but I&#8217;m enjoying it. What I&#8217;m really loving is living in a big city again. A lot of my Austin friends lump on Houston, but I&#8217;m thriving here so far. It&#8217;s a very neighborhood oriented place, with areas of awesomeness and freaky funkyness, areas of urban decay, and soulless corporate emptiness. A few weeks ago I watched Metropolis (1927) with a live band performing the soundtrack in a park hiding in the shadows of skyscrapers in the heart of downtown, then road home through a warehouse-laden industrial wasteland. I&#8217;m finding the good places to ride my bike and learning my way around.</p>
<p>There have been some ups and downs as I adjust to a new city, a new social circle with new people in it, and unwinding from the stress and mental weirdness of 2008, but overall I&#8217;m happier than I&#8217;ve been in a long time. The lack of writing has been eating at me, however. I haven&#8217;t established good writing habits again, and I can feel my muse suffering from not being expressed enough. It&#8217;s a weird feeling, a voice whispering at the back of my brain but unable to find the way to express itself lately. I&#8217;m working on fixing this, and have written a poem recently and been thinking on some fiction. I&#8217;m hopeful I can keep myself accountable by posting here again, and also renew my involvement in my languishing online writing community.</p>
<p>Recent activities: I&#8217;ve been expressing myself online a lot via <a href="http://twitter.com/kitoconnell" target="_blank">my twitter</a> feed. I&#8217;ve been watching the Wire and Buffy for the first time and thinking on serial storytelling. I&#8217;m doing freelance webgeekery for my mom&#8217;s company. I had a wonderful Flipside and I sure am craving Decompression.</p>
<p>As a result of my Houston explorations, I&#8217;m doing some thinking on dive bars, stoner havens, and other liminal spaces. Share your experience with these urban treasues in the comments to <a href="http://dreamcafe.com/words/2009/06/16/liminal-spaces/" target="_blank">my post</a> on Words Words Words.</p>
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		<title>Introducing&#8230;</title>
		<link>http://kitoconnell.com/2009/01/21/introducing/</link>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 21 Jan 2009 09:19:27 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Kit</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Continuous Coast]]></category>
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		<description><![CDATA[Tonight I wrote my first introduction for a book. It&#8217;s for an upcoming rerelease of one of my favorite short story collections by a favorite author of mine. I was really honored to be asked to do this, although it&#8217;s also a little surreal that he thought an introduction by me was worth having in [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Tonight I wrote my first introduction for a book. It&#8217;s for an upcoming rerelease of one of my favorite short story collections by a favorite author of mine. I was really honored to be asked to do this, although it&#8217;s also a little surreal that he thought an introduction by me was worth having in his book. After rereading the book, it was easy. I got some good help from a few readers and sent it off. I&#8217;ll update this site when I know more details about when the book will be out.</p>
<p>I have been working hard on the <a href="http://continuouscoast.com/">Continuous Coast</a> project. My <a href="http://continuouscoast.com/08preview/pol.html">story</a> I published earlier this month for the project has been read about 300 times, which isn&#8217;t bad for a silly little bed time story on a project no one&#8217;s heard of yet. I&#8217;ve been trying to line up more bands for <a href="http://luftonrunner.com/">Lufton Runner</a>, with some exciting success. I&#8217;m trying to find time to build the project&#8217;s web presence. I&#8217;m helping critique other project members&#8217; work. I&#8217;m <a href="http://continuouscoast.com/forums/viewtopic.php?f=8&amp;t=38" target="_blank">playing fictals in interactive chats</a>. If I&#8217;m not getting as many words on the page, I am trying to be gentle on myself as I am balancing all the above with a number of real life changes and upheavals and Things To Be Done &#8482; of varying importance.</p>
<p>I need to put some time in on my own words, and even just my own stories for CC, soon.</p>
<p>I did, however, write a poem recently.</p>
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		<title>Lizard</title>
		<link>http://kitoconnell.com/2009/01/06/lizard/</link>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 06 Jan 2009 13:31:34 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Kit</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[I found a mummified gecko in my window. I think it&#8217;s a sign that I&#8217;m living a good life that I knew immediately who would receive such a gift as a sign of love and affection.
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I found a mummified gecko in my window. I think it&#8217;s a sign that I&#8217;m living a good life that I knew immediately who would receive such a gift as a sign of love and affection.</p>
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		<title>&#8220;Pol&#8217;s Tale,&#8221; a Zayzan bedtime story</title>
		<link>http://kitoconnell.com/2009/01/02/pols-tale-a-zayzan-bedtime-story/</link>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 03 Jan 2009 03:52:27 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Kit</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[During most of 2008, I was engaged in the creation of a new world. Along with my co-creators Reesa Brown and Steven Brust, we began the Continuous Coast project, a Creative Commons-licensed, open-content shared world. Although the project is still in the final phases of its beta or prologue phase, there has been regular content [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>During most of 2008, I was engaged in the creation of a new world. Along with my co-creators <a href="http://reesabrown.com/" target="_blank">Reesa Brown</a> and <a href="http://dreamcafe.com/">Steven Brust</a>, we began the Continuous Coast project, a Creative Commons-licensed, open-content shared world. Although the project is still in the final phases of its beta or prologue phase, there has been regular content for the last few months on <a href="http://portoutreach.com/voices/" target="_blank">Voices from Port Outreach</a> and the <a href="http://twitter.com/mediators/" target="_blank">Mediators</a> twitter feed.</p>
<p>In honor of the new year, we just published our first short stories from the world. You can read my contribution, a Zayzan bedtime story called &#8220;<a href="http://continuouscoast.com/08preview/pol.html" target="_blank">Pol&#8217;s Tale</a>,&#8221; and the stories by Reesa and Steve on <a href="http://continuouscoast.com/" target="_blank">our Continuous Coast preview</a>.</p>
<p>Happy New Year to everyone! I had a delightful one celebrating the first urban &#8216;burn&#8217; &#8212; the <a href="http://www.communityartmakers.com/" target="_blank">Resolution Clock burn</a> at First Night Austin. It was glorious to watch such a beautiful effigy burn in the heart of my favorite city, surrounded by loved ones and heartfamily. We also listened to <a href="http://www.arcattack.com/" target="_blank">Arc Attack</a> and then spent the night chilling and partying at Neal &amp; Summer&#8217;s house.</p>
<p>2008 was a difficult year.  I am looking forward to 2009 as a year for beginnings, and for change.</p>
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