Lately on this blog I’ve been writing about OKCupid, and it’s inspired me to respond to a little problem in this dating site’s userbase. About…
A Message to OKCupid Homophobes
Posted in OKCupid, and Sex & Relationships
Category: Sex & Relationships
Polyamorous Dating on OKCupid 4: Finding People
Posted in OKCupid, Polyamory, and Sex & Relationships
This is part four of a seven part series on using OKCupid for the non-monogamous and others seeking polyamory or open relationships. It is cowritten…
On Saturdays I answer reader questions. This came in an email in response to the Guide to Polyamorous Dating with OKCupid. How do you talk…
Polyamorous Dating on OKCupid 3: Match Questions
Posted in OKCupid, Polyamory, and Sex & Relationships
This is part three of a seven part series on using OKCupid for the non-monogamous and others seeking polyamory or open relationships. It is cowritten…
On Saturdays, I answer reader questions or respond to frequent web searches. This came up in conversation with a friend, but it’s a question I…
Guest post: A Feminist Defense of Consensual Nonconsent
Posted in Guest Bloggers, and Sex & Relationships
Rape is undeniably one of the worst crimes. Yet many people, women and feminists among them, have fantasies of sexual force. Kinky feminists often struggle…