I am leading a read-through of The Ethical Slut, 2nd edition. If you’d like to catch up on past installments, check the list at the bottom of the series…
Month: September 2011
Review: Axovus Ultimate Blindfold
Posted in Reviews, Sex & Relationships, and Sex Toys
Axovus sent me the Ultimate Blindfold directly for review. You can find other blindfolds or Axovus products on sextoy.com. Oh Axovus — I love your products. Even though I have…
A Burner Lexicon: Playasexual
Posted in A Burner Lexicon, Archive, and Burning Man
Playasexual, –noun, The immediacy of Burning Man naturally leads to exploring new things. Gifts are offered freely; many urge virgins especially to say yes to offers as often as is…
A Year of A Burner Lexicon
Posted in A Burner Lexicon, Burning Man, and Website
September 1st marked the one year anniversary of my successful series, A Burner Lexicon. First suggested by Lauren Rothman of DefyAuthority.NET, we originally planned to…
e[lust] #29
Posted in Life
My post on Harems and Poly Language was included in the latest issue of e[lust], a review of the best in online writing about sex.
Welcome to e[lust] – Your source for sexual intelligence and inspirations of lust from the smartest & sexiest bloggers! Whether you’re looking for hot steamy smut, thought-provoking opinions or expert information, you’re going to find it here. Want to be included in e[lust] #30? Start with the rules, check out the schedule and subscribe to the RSS feed for updates!
~ This Week’s Top Three Posts ~
Evidence To The Contrary – If anyone out there ever tries to tell you that internet relationships and friendships are not real, point them in my direction and I will happily set them straight on the matter because I have proof, in fact I am proof, that they know not what they speak of.
Open Marriages Don’t Work….– The only way I would agree with that statement is if you add: …..if you’re marriage already has problems. But even that part is not universally true.
Love in the Age of Broadband – What happened to our ability to keep it casual? Why would we attach ourselves to someone who is (often) hundreds, if not thousands, of miles away? And, more to the point, why would we attach ourselves to someone we have never met?
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Ask Lilly – Open and Polyamorous: Why be married at all?
Kit Q&A: Slave? Sub? Pet?
Posted in Kit Q&A, and Sex & Relationships
On Saturdays I answer questions from my readers or respond to frequent web searches. A friend of mine who is new to BDSM asked this question.…